Many of us are exposed to abusive situations from others, and as much as the strength of character and emotional stability, and we often response abuse with abuse, and this is what achieves psychological peace and raises the banner of our beautiful morals, and it is not necessary to respond to those who offended us.
Smile
A nice smile indicates your stability and the strength of your position, and when used in response to abuse, it will make the offending person ashamed of himself and feel his insignificance in front of you, and this is what makes him often apologize when he feels remorse.
Tolerance brings psychological peace
A tolerant person who does not respond to abuse with violence is a strong character because he can control his anger and confront others steadily, no matter how they deal with him.
Calmly Discuss
When you are exposed to any deliberately embarrassing situation from others, you must be calm and start discussing objectively to clarify your point of view and respond to abuse in a civilized manner, and this in turn will be the strongest response that prevents abuse and resolves the situation.
Don’t be in a hurry to react
Some people, when they are abused, rush to react and then return to regret because they were led to emotion and lack of control over their nerves, and in this case the person acts unconsciously and says words or does actions that he regrets, so you must wait and think rationally before embarking on any reaction towards stressful situations that you may go through.
Beware of being misunderstood
Many times, others do not intend to offend you, but it was just a misunderstanding on your part, so you must check well, and make sure of the intention of others towards you in any statement or action directed at you, and always give them the opportunity to express their position and explain the matter in detail and it will become clear to you then any confusion or A misunderstanding occurred without a full realization of the dimensions of the situation.
Leave the situation and discuss it later
Sometimes withdrawal is the safest solution when others deliberately escalate the situation unconsciously as a result of excessive emotion on their part, and here any dialogue will not do any good, but may even complicate the matter further. Your withdrawal from this discussion is a feature of strength and stability, and never weakness from you. This will make the offending person review himself and regret this situation, and most likely he will initiate an apology, and it will be an opportunity to clarify your point of view and calmly blame him for his excessive anger and offending you. This will make you stronger and more in control of those stressful situations.
